Month 11 Spectral Moon Of Liberation
Dissolve * Release * Liberation
May 2, 2019 – May 29, 2019
May, 2, 2019, Planetary East, Malkut Sepheroth
Thursday, Red Resonant Moon, Kin 189, Crown Chakra
This Article is from the University of Utah
15.1 Communication
15.1.1 The Great Secret of Communication
Communication consists of 7% words,
36% the tone of your voice, and
57% body language.
Hence, 93% of our communication is non-verbal.’[1556]
So begins the most significant class I have ever taken.
Text 15-3: 3 Key Elements Training
Reading body language is a skill to find answers and solutions. To begin reading body language I must remove judgment and see movements as indicators. When I see movements, the next step is to ask good questions. While you are speaking, the brain prepares and organizes 650 words per minute to say. At the last moment, our consciousness filters this down to 150 words. As a person speaks there are an average of 500 words that are held back.
These words show up in body language.
The great secret of communication is when the person one is talking to looks down, do not talk, wait until they look up again and say what is on their mind before responding. They are looking into their heart and emotions. By not talking one creates safety and gives a caring impression. Talking at this point is to talk over their thought that is the same as talking over their words.
Eye movement chart from University of Utah
Other physical gestures can be understood by picturing someone in water. If they are pulling water towards themselves that is to bring others closer while the opposite is vice-versa. Holding ones hands and up brings life towards you while fists and hands down is considered at threat. Pointing with the index finger is a weapon when negative and should be used with objects not people, unless with being positive. Standing on both legs with the chin up, shoulders back gives a strong foundation impression while standing on one leg makes one appear weak.
15.1.2 Arguments
Resolving arguments is based on persistence, but not in dialog; rather non-verbal persistence like a pleasant tone and hug are more effective. Listening is as important as resolving problems, but there is no substitute for a good solution. Babies need to be cared for within reason and health. A baby needs to change position so a vertical seat like a bouncer can serve in place of carrying the baby to avoid back injury. A mother’s health is as important as the baby, so plenty of rest, good meals, exercise, friendship, and companionship are all important. One should not separate oneself from the community in order to preserve a network for helping each other and decision-making. Life cycle events require careful care.
Ironically religion can create communities or barriers. Most change religions because of communities while some because of theology. Nevertheless, one should not cut ones shoots and instead try to establish a community where one is not found. Hashem has prepared the remedy even before the sickness.
Poem on Listening
Read this previous article: Month 5 Day 1 “I” Contact
